Why the question “what hurts a narcissist forever?” bothers me
It popped up in my Quora email digest this morning.

After a sigh or two, I took a little dive into why this question rubbed me the wrong way. Turns out, the answer is multifaceted:
- While I would advise any loved one to tread carefully when seeing certain NPD-ish “red flags”, what we call a “narcissist” is the unfortunate result of…