Thanks so much for your reply! I sooo appreciate the perspective. Your daughter is lucky to have you as a mom :) And on the note in brackets, me too! I had started to notice it when I started to dress in a way that appealed to me more -- though had ditched the heels a few years back already. But when I went out on Christmas Eve, feeling super cute in a nice little sparkly black romper, boots, and little cape, I quickly realized I just was NOT feeling at ease. I wasn't having as much fun dancing, etc. Luckily, I live super close to where I was, so I popped over real quick, came back in tracksuit bottoms and a mesh tee, and had a blast hehe <3


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